Behaviors as we popularly know is any action performed by a person or people which is not in line or In line with the norms and expectation of people living in the society and there are mainly two kinds of Behavior namely positive and Negative behaviors…
List of positive and negative Behavior in recovery | Guardian Tips
Positive Behaviors
Negative Behaviors
Positive behavior
can be defined as any action performed by a person or people which is in line with the norms and expectation of people living in the society…
Examples of Positive behaviours
SPEAK WITH THE FIRST PERSON “I.”
SPEAK DIRECTLY TO INDIVIDUALS
BE AWARE AT ALL TIMES OF YOUR THOUGHTS AND FEELINGS OF THE MOMENT
SPEAK FROM YOUR HONEST FEELINGS AND THOUGHTS
READ THE MESSAGES FROM YOUR OWN BODY
BE AS SPONTANEOUS AS POSSIBLE
BE AWARE OF THE ROLES YOU TAKE AND YOUR CHARACTERISTIC BEHAVIOR
LISTEN ACTIVELY
DON’T SPEAK FOR OTHERS.
EXPECT PERIODS OF SILENCE
Negative Group Behaviors
Here is a list of frequently seen group behaviors that need to be confronted as they happen. Take the risk to confront your own behaviors and also confront the behaviors of your peers. Whether they are directly connected to acting out or not. Know more…
EXCUSE MAKING
BLAMING AND PROJECTION
REDEFINING
SUPER-OPTIMISM.
SUPER-PESSIMISM
LYING
MAKING FOOLS OF OTHERS
ASSUMING
I’M UNIQUE
INGRATIATING
MINIMIZING.
VAGUENESS
AGGRESSION / DOMINANCE
POWER PLAYS
VICTIM PLAYING
DRAMA / EXCITEMENT / SENSATIONALIZING
SECRETIVE AND CLOSE-MINDED
IMAGE AND SELF-DEFINITION
GRANDIOSITY
INTELLECTUALIZING
RATIONALIZING
STAYING IN THE SAFETY ZONE
ISOLATION
REPRESSION
RUMINATING
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distracting classroom behaviors
visiting with friends
interrupting
throwing things
teasing
Op-positional behaviors
refusing to stay in seats
vulgar language
harassment
Good behaviors would be
staying on task
raising hand to answer question
kind to other students
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SPEAK WITH THE FIRST PERSON “I.” Instead of “People feel…,” or “You feel… ,” etc., say “I think…,” “I feel…” This gives more of a flavor of you rather than broad generalities.
BE AS SPONTANEOUS AS POSSIBLE.
Too often, we “mull over,” think about, choose careful language, wait too long, try to be polite, wait our turn to speak or react. This may “water down,” negate our freshness, sparkle and genuineness. Try to let ideas, thoughts and feelings flow out and over as they will convey the true “view.”
LYING. Confuses, distorts, and takes the focus off the behavior. Examples are:
Commission — making things up that are simply not true.
Omission — leaving out major sections.
EXCUSE MAKING. For example: “I act out because I’m depressed,” or “I act out because my spouse doesn’t understand me.” know more now
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